She is a very independent little girl who seems too old for her years and shows signs of maladjustment and difficulty in forming relationships. Mr. and Mrs. W and their children provide a warm, loving, stimulating atmosphere for Sara who has been deprived since birth of loving relationships. After some initial difficulty regarding Sara’s lack…
I’ve been trying to write this post ever since I decided it would be a good idea. That’s the trouble with perfectionism. It can keep you stuck. I don’t know why I’ve found it hard to write for the past couple of weeks. The ideas just haven’t been flowing quite as well as usual. Maybe…
I was effectively an only child at home with my elderly parents. I say ‘elderly’ without exaggeration, because in those days (the 1970s), if you had a child in midlife, you were properly over the hill. Growing up as the only child in the house was also boring as hell. Or at least that’s how…
Are you a good decision-maker? I hope you are better than me. Because, frankly, I’m sh*t at it. I’m someone who looks around for an adultier adult to tell me it’s okay. It doesn’t really matter what the thing is. It could be a major decision, like whether to take a new job offer (like…
I have a confession: It’s never taken much to send me into a downward emotional spiral fuelled by rejection; real or perceived. From being picked last for the school netball team, to a heartfelt WhatsApp to a friend that went unanswered – and everything in between. If you read last week’s post documenting the major…
What happens when rejections pile up over a lifetime As I write this, I’m just a day away from my first Redundiversary – a portmanteau of my own genius that only works in British English. A full 364 days of existing in the wilderness that is post-employment as a 55 year-old. At some point I’ll…
Things I’ve learned as I approach my 1 year redundiversary In last week’s post I wrote about the very beginning of ‘life after redundancy’. You can read it here:https://sarakingwrites.co.uk/who-even-am-i/ As my 1 year redundiversary grows closer, I’ve realised this past year has not just been about losing my job; it’s been about questioning who I…
When redundancy in your 50s kickstarts full life reset mode In autumn 2024 the curtain closed abruptly on my 30 year sales and marketing career. Of course, there was initial shock and disbelief when the redundancy axe dropped on me out of nowhere. There were angry, terrified tears. And – a few days later –…
When childhood trauma finally makes sense I’d describe myself as one of life’s thinkers; a bit of an intellectual as well (without trying to sound too ego or snooty). By this I mean that a huge part of my life is about being curious and critical. I love exploring complex or abstract concepts, and getting…
Reflections on the marathon that is writing & self-publishing a fiction novel As I write, we’re exactly a week away from the arbitrary ‘go live’ date I plugged into Amazon KDP (Kindle Direct Publishing) for my Kindle e-book and paperback women’s fiction / family saga novel. And I have to say…. everything feels a bit…..well, flat. Quiet. Undramatic. It’s…